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I speak from personal experience when I mention that I have broken up with some of the nicest people you’ll ever meet. She had everything on my checklist — smart, silly, cute, good family, stable job, etc.
Sometimes horror stories about them can make for fun discussion, but don't ever bring your ex into the conversation if it's not called for.
So he usually gets involved with psychos that latch on to him. I like my space and I don’t care if I never see you again. A guy in my life is “nice to have” but by no means a need. Check out more from one of the original masters, David De Angelo. But the attitude that plays the best with the most women is generally some version of “cocky and funny.”Of course, most women outgrow men who are so cocky that they are unable to forge bonds with a woman.
Guys come and go but my family, especially my kids, are forever. De Angelo puts into plain words what you just feel in your bones: confident, decisive, witty, and somewhat unpredictable men are the most attractive. But the desire for a man with a little swagger never entirely wanes.
In other words, you have nothing about which to panic. Suitors will continue to line up well into your 30’s. Loads of us are still single because nice isn’t enough for a long term relationship.
BUT…Your independent “I don’t need anybody” attitude is counterproductive. For that to work you also need fun, interesting, stuff in common.