Not w dating my best friend
However, in order to maintain a healthy relationship with both of them, it's crucial that you never seem even a little like you're taking sides in their breakup or casting either one as the bad guy, even months or years after the fact. For instance, if your friend doesn't want to go to parties where her ex will be in attendance, don't pressure her.
If you need to vent about one of them, find a neutral party. But don't assume she doesn't want an invite if you haven't asked!
What I've noticed, though, is that every person I've heard espouse this worldview was straight.
Lots of people have told me unequivocally that they would never date a friend's ex.Queers don't tend to expect our dates to come into our lives completely free of prior complication.We know our backstories will be tangled and intertwined. he is always hanging out with his gf or friends when we hang out after school.i have been alone with him once. i know we are friends but i think there is more there.