Either he’ll let the relationship fizzle out (in which case, it’s a good thing you ended it now before you wasted a year of your life), or he’ll take a couple of days or a week to think it over and he’ll pursue you and tell you he wants to be exclusive.
Whatever happens though, know your value and don’t settle for less than your worth.
For example, you might say, “That’s ok, but just so you know I don’t do the whole casual dating thing.
So if you don’t want anything serious, I think we should leave things for now until you know for sure before we get in any deeper.” In other words, When a man knows you are willing to let him go if he doesn’t make a decision, you will find out much faster what he really wants deep down.
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He’s also 34 years old and has never had a boyfriend.So, assuming you’ve read the above and you’re thinking to yourself, “Yep, this guy is definitely into me and seems to want more”, then now you need to be ready to have the conversation.There are three steps to this: You should be able to talk about this in a very comfortable and matter-of-fact way.Some guys are committed to their single life, other guys date with the attitude of “If I meet an amazing woman, Look at these behaviors, and listen to your gut, and you’ll have a sense of whether this guy is truly pursuing you or whether he just sees you as someone to date at his convenience.Give it a few weeks or a month of dating so you can see his behavior over a period of time, rather than judging him on a single week.