Dating soldier ptsd
The problem I have found when it comes to men in the military that are real dicks is that they joined the military for all the wrong reasons.
While it's too bad it didn't work out (my fault, not his), I know now how I'm to be treated by a man and will look for someone like him when looking for a husband. I also have a friend who's married to a military guy who is a complete MORON, but he's a good husband and father.I was going to move to Georgia because that is what had been decided for him. The things I value (independent thought, self-sufficiency, open-mindedness, independence in general) are not the things I saw in military life. However: this is my experience with one man, and it will not in any way fit for every situation.The sexism, racism and arrogance of many military personnel always upset me, but I tried hard to put that aside and enter the Military relationship with an open mind. I try very hard not to create my opinion solely on my hurt, but I'd be insane not to admit that it must color it slightly. But please, please don't make life-long sacrifices without appreciating that there are other options. He cheats constantly, then makes her think it's her fault. He won't take more than two easy community college classes a semester, and usually ends up failing out of at least one.Anyway, I've recently met a very nice guy, and now everyone around me including my parents are warning me and waiting for it all to blow up in my face. For some people the military is an extension of high school. Dating is hard because you don't always know who is a great guy and who isputting up a front.