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He would not only do the least possible to keep me around, but also started ignoring anything that was important to me.So while I’ve heard you say that “men like the woman who treat them nicely and makes things easier“, my experience has been completely the opposite.As our relationship evolved, I started falling in love with him, compromising, going out of my way to make him happy and even doing things that went against my beliefs.He, on the other hand, stopped putting any effort in the relationship.Take my latest relationship, for instance, I started “duty dating” this man and eventually we went out for 8 months.For two months, I really wasn’t that into him, and for those two months he was very sweet to me, went out of his way to please me, compromised for the relationship and was very considerate of what was important to me.Does it mean the saying “nice guys finish last” applies for girls as well?
It may sometimes be difficult to find a woman that is attracted to you and your niceness, but once you do it’s clear that she won’t be going anywhere.Unfortunately, I’m going to have to close that loophole right now. 🙂So here’s my take on why “men care more about women who don’t care about them” is about the worst relationship philosophy I’ve ever heard: First of all, I don’t think that “nice guys finish last”.As I wrote in one of my first blog entries ever, nice guys finish FIRST, as long as they have the balls to make decisions.At this point, I’d like you to pay attention to this important nuance, as you seem to be ignoring it when you make your declaration that “nice girls finish last”. Alas, your previous relationship has led you to conclude otherwise.Here’s your supporting evidence: You had a boyfriend for two months and were basically indifferent towards him and gave him the least you could.