Dating a shorter guy heels
Listen, what turns you on is what turns you on, and if you can really only get a wide-on for dudes over six feet, that's a-okay.
But if you're only into tall guys, I would urge you to think about why you'll only date tall guys.
It has nothing to do with height, unless your main sexual fetish is being carried back and forth across a room, over and over again.
That's why a guy who's game for dating a taller woman might have more progressive ideas about dating and women in general, too — a 2014 study suggested that men 5'7" and shorter did more housework, were less likely to get divorced, and were more open to dating older women.
He would even make his voice deeper when he was with other guys.
I feel like shorter guys are more insecure because they can only date shorter girls." Helena, 257.
When we stood side-by-side, his penis was about even with my abdomen, which made sex exactly as awkward as you'd imagine. Trust this 1993 study, published in the way-too-entertaingly-titled Annals of Sex Research, which found that there was basically no connection between height and penis size. But soon after we got together, he asked why I had so many heels that I never wore.
Trying to reconcile height disparities while boning involved a lot of crouching on unstable structures made out of stacked pillows and crawling around on tables, trying to use my D in high school Geometry to make all the angles line up. It turned out that he loved me in heels — and also, he had made his peace with his height and his body, and didn't need me to change the way I dressed or the things I liked to make him feel more like a man.