Advice for non muslim dating a muslim
She should bear in mind, above all, that like it or not every marriage to a Muslim is affected by Islamic law, whatever the country of residence. Islam is not just a faith; it is a way of life that is governed by Islamic law.
The Muslim is obligated to live by its values and requirements wherever he might live.
"The only evidence that they had that the other person existed before their marriage night was simply a small black-and-white picture and the good wishes of a couple of relatives," he says.
It was just something that was non-existent," he recalls.
"They can do anything and they're completely un-traceable."Shaikh says the way his parents got married doesn't work for him, or a lot of young Muslims who have grown up here.
That's why he created a website and an app called 24
But outside, it was another story."You see your friends, they go out on movie dates and they go to the mall and they hold hands," he says. And this creates a dilemma for young Muslims in search of love. We don’t know how to talk to the opposite sex, how do we go about this?
In a nutshell, Shaikh says, he felt like they were having fun and he wasn't. Ghazala Irshad, who also grew up in a Muslim family in Illinois, says she knows young Muslims who growing up, were told to "lower [their] gaze" when they came across the opposite sex."[But] by the time it comes to the age of trying to get married, then our parents are like, well, why aren’t you getting married, we want grandchildren ... We’re not allowed to date, we’ve been separated, we haven’t developed friendships," she says.